Dan Ambrose
January 24, 2025 6:30 PM||TLU n Demand
I have been teaching “connection” skills applicable to every aspect of trial for over ten years.In this webinar I will demonstrate and explain my latest insights into the skills of connection; eye contact, glance control, creating space, voice control, emotional state control, hand and body movement, etc.
These skills will be demonstrated and explained in the context of opening statements, voir dire, direct examination and cross-examination.
Trial Presentation Skills = Connection with the Jury
We want to connect with the jurors so we can control their emotions.We do this through presentation skills that make them like us and want to help us.
Skill 1: Appropriate Eye contact and Micro-connection
Skill 2: Voice control = Cadence: pacing/pausing
Skill 3: Facial Expression/State Control = Emotional congruence
Skill 4: Hand/body movement = Hand gesticulation
Skill 5: Glance Control
Skill 6: Creating Space
Skill 7: Word Selection
Skill 8: Economy of words
Skill 9: Listening
Skill 10: Acting
Skill 1: Eye contact and Micro-connection
Micro-connection: Look into their eyes and make a momentary connection and then move on.Scan slowly from side to sides looking briefly into the eyes of each person as you go.Ideally you can micro-connect with 14 people in about 3 seconds or so. This gets people comfortable looking in our eyes and almost wanting us to come back to them again.Most people are uncomfortable with eye contact, but it’s our job to get them comfortable with eye contact from us. You are ramping up the connection with each juror as you go.
Skill 2: Voice Control = Cadence
Skill 3: Facial Expression
Warm face = If you are saying “good morning”, talking about someones family member, or thanking someone give them a warm face, because it’s congruent.Or if you are talking about a warm type of topic like friends, you should use a warm face as well for emotional congruence.We are connecting and activating mirror neurons enticing jurors to smile/warm face back at us.We are controlling their emotions.
Warm curious face = “how can I help you?”
CuriousFace (inquisitive) = If you are asking questions like “Does this make sense?” use an inquisitive face.
Thinking face = trying to find a thought, looking into your mind’s eye, and not looking at anyone.
Reset – remove the expression from your face, relaxed and neutral, when your arms go to your sides.
Always intentional with emotional state.
Skill 4: Hand gesticulation
Skill 5: Glance control
Skill 6: Creating Space
You must imagine a space in your mind and take the jurors into that space for the story.You cannot look at the jurors when you are in the space, because you break the illusion of space. Whenever there is a verb, there is action/movement, all movement takes place somewhere, so you MUST create space whenever you have a verb.
Skill 7: Word Selection
Skill 8: Economy of Words
Do not use 5 words if you can say the same thing in 3.
Skill 9: Listening
Listening is the bridge.
Us listening to them, and them listening to us.
Example: When you say something that deserves a response like “good morning” you must give them time to respond to show them you are interested in what they have to say, and you are honoring them.
Skill 10: Acting
Trial is a performance.
Like an actor you must reherse/train
Three Stages: Stage left stage center stage right
Use them
The cross-examination part teaches the following skills:
In the context of the defense medical examination.
This webinar has the potential to change your LIFE.
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